Thank you Amazon for recommending me this book. Thank you Gred Behrendt & Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt for writing this book. This book got me through some dark times. It helped me fully understand my break up with FWD, this book helped me to get over him, finally. From the authors of 'He's just not that into you' (which was created into a movie in 2009) the story tells of past relationships from both the male and female perspective. This helped me through all my break ups, and I even shared most of the wisdom onto my friends.
The title is enough to captivate me. It's so obvious and blunt, but it is the hardest part of a break up, accepting that it's over and moving on. While reading, I pictured myself standing there in front of my ex, releasing my emotions and telling them exactly how they destroyed me. The book encourages you to release your feelings, only to the right people. Basically, that boy/girl who dumped you doesn't want to hear about how they broke your heart.
My first thought was to keep an online diary, but I was tok scared of having my private thoughts unleashed for the whole world to see. So instead, I created a word document, and every negative thought I had went straight onto it. at the end of each month, I would print it out, destroy it, then delete the file. Pretty soon, the things that made me mad no longer had an effect on me. It was brilliant.
The authors know exactly what they're talking out, and they make you believe that anything is possible again.
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